| Friday, March 28, 2008 |
| 7 Secret of Early Childhood Parenting for Your Babies and Toddler - Right Brain Parenting |
Today parents are facing lots of challenges. The first most critical is how to be good parents, follow by learning how to teach your toddlers, how to get along with 2 years old toddler. Others say terrible 2 when your toddlers reach 2 years old.
Here I share my experience of my toddler parenting journey...
Secret #1 Listen
Parent have to listen to toddlers... listen to their cries, breath, eye contact...Listen is critical to understand them better.
Secret #2 Think in their shoe
Think the way toddler with limited social network knowledge shoe. Consider they're immature, although they are genius in general. We have to think for their sake...
Secret #3 Open minded without concluded the right or wrong
Parents have to open their mind and cannot see the misbehave as negative behavior. Perhaps don't punish them, but open your mind to receive any information they want to convey...
Secret #4 EQ high and in control
Parents have to maintain a high EQ, control, control...control your temper..really it is critical needed for this doesn't matter what you are doing while your child wanted your attention. Try to calm down yourself by counting 1to 5 slowly can help!
Secret #5 Be responsive
It's critical to be responsive to your toddler if they are need your help. Perhaps if you have higher priority task to do at that moment, response to your child by telling them to wait while you need to finish the critical task to prevent any negative impact happen.
Secret #6 Be fair if you have more children
Be fair to your kids. It is important especially for the eldest kids. Be fair for love, for gift, for celebrations etc...
Secret #7 Patient
Last by not least, yes! It is be patient... We live in a world that is getting less and less patient. We can't wait for queue, can't wait for holiday, can't even wait for computer to boot up or PC software to run or internet page to launch... The only way to train parent patient is through above the six secrets, plus engage yourself in a hobby. Hobbies that need manually work, such as wash car, do art and craft, tracking, swimming... but not computer games please, because you have enough computer in your working life already :)
Hope this helps and enjoy your parenting plus bonding with your children!
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