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Television is still one of the cheapest and simplest sources of information and entertainment today. Adult and children alike are still crazy about it, and this will still be a continuous habit no matter what technology will evolve. However, we all know that it can also be addictive. In addition, more and more shows are not applicable to our children. That is why we parents should take charge of controlling them. But we cannot just turn it off and tell them that it is enough. We should be able to think of effective ways of doing such and motivate them without further misunderstanding. Here are some of them:
Make an agreement. Lay down the rules and implement them very strictly. Watching television should be after finishing the school homework and other important activities. But make the rules reasonable for him so that he can follow them. Moreover, set the time that cannot affect his sleeping time. By doing this, you are also motivating him to understand his priorities.
Hold the remote control. This does not mean that you hold it literally. But you must know the shows that he is watching. That is why the television should be at the living room only and not inside his room, until he is old enough to differentiate right from wrong. There are also shows that looks like for children but in reality, they are not. Not all cartoon shows are appropriate for children. By doing this, you are also teaching him things that cannot be learned from school.
No TV at meal time. Never allow him to watch TV while eating. Besides the fact that he cannot enjoy his meal, this is one of the few times that the family is complete. This means that you must reserve this opportunity to bond as a happy family. Even if he is alone, eating in front of TV is still unacceptable. Require him not to rush his food just to catch up. If he insists, then show him who is the parent and the master of the house. By doing this, you are also teaching him to be disciplined.
Provide other options. Besides the television, you can also provide him attractive children books and educational toys as alternative sources of entertainment and learning. Have a family day at least once a month can divert his attention to other things. A simple walk in the park every afternoon is also advisable. By doing this, he can learn the difference between reality and fantasy.
Set a good example. If your child sees that you cannot control yourself in watching television, you can never teach him to do the same. Say what you do and do what you say. You must be able to justify your instructions. If you have favorite late night shows, let him sleep first and do not let him know that you are doing it. By doing this, you can easily motivate him because he sees in you a role model to follow.
Television was invented to entertain and educate us including our children. But it is our responsibility as parents who must ensure that it will really serve its purpose.
Labels: Parenting
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